I’ve been through an emotional year and a half, I’ll admit. I’ve processed through so many emotions. I worked so hard to try to become the breadwinner in my marriage. It didn’t pan out. But, thing are looking up financially due to new opportunities for my hubby.
The area that still requires some work on my part is related to my feelings of failure. I’ve always considered myself a high achiever. Until recently, I’ve always achieved everything and anything my heart desired. I’m used to creating the results I desire.
Every April I tend to take stock of my life because it’s the anniversary month of my college graduation. I can be so unfair to myself, judging my path and beating myself up. Yes, I decided to come to the planet to learn self-love. It’s not always the fun lesson to learn, but I’ve intended to learn it through more joy and fun as of late. I am tired of the hard lessons learned through struggling and stress. No more!
Even though I currently feel like a “failure,” it’s not really true. These thoughts and feelings are just a product of my past patterns of thinking and feeling. I can create a brand new future via my new, positive thoughts and feelings. So, I’ve been working diligently to reprogram my subconscious mind where all the old programs are running. I’m doing affirmations and working on loving myself.
Really, there is no such thing as failure. If you’ve ever had a reading from me, you know that I always mention how everything is part of your path and has contributed to who you are today. It’s all good–truly. At the end of the night, I feel pretty peaceful mostly. I have helped many people on their paths. For me, I want to help as many people as I can. So, that is my goal. I am working on taking more action to reach a wider audience, including a third more authentic website 
Just remember that you are human. It might be impossible to totally get rid of the negative thoughts, but you can get rid of at least 99.9% of them, in my humble opinion. I’m a work in progress with this stuff too.
What has helped you on your own path of self-love and discovery? Feel free to share…
Bear hugs and blessings,
Lisa
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I been passsing trought the same fears, low self-steem and sick patterns with my relationships (friends, family, etc) The unconsciousness of my problems(or maybe i was so tierd of tried everything, and really everything to understand myself and the mysteries of life hohohoh i know it sounds heavy but it’s true) took me to a level of mental/emotional waste until i said ENOUGH! I recive a Past Life Regression and angelic canalisation in some ceremonies, besides of finding in your page the Pdf were really good help, but also focus in the belive that i attract what i am and also, as you said: “tired of the hard lessons learned through struggling and stress. No more!” i said: i choose to learn all my lessons in the unconditional love.
Keep on the awesome job you’ve been doing
Mexican grettings,
eli
Dear Eli,
Thanks so much for sharing! Here’s to us learning our lessons through fun, love, and joy! I love that intention. Keep up your good work too…Blessings to you on your path. Thanks for your feedback too. I enjoy hearing others’ stories on how they have overcome challenges.
Blessings to you!
-Lisa